Every weekend, Steve Maxwell and his wife, Debbie, get moving with their three kids, Jacob, 9, Taylor, 5, and Mitchell, 1. They'll ride bikes as a family, hit the local roller rink, go on nature walks or simply take a stroll around the neighborhood.
"I think anything you can do as parents to get your kids up and around and outside is important," says Steve Maxwell of Canton Township. "But we just like to be together as a family, and I guess it's more fun to be doing something than to just sit around."
The Maxwell family has the right idea. Experts say parents need to teach their kids how to have an active lifestyle.
"It's important for families to exercise together," says Colleen Greene, a wellness coordinator for MFit, which provides medically based health and wellness programs and services to University of Michigan Health System patients, as well as the community. Being a role model for exercise will encourage your kids more than simply telling them that exercise is good for them, she says.
"I think we certainly do see that when parents are active with regular exercise or active hobbies, and particularly when (parents) include their kids in those things, that kids subsequently adopt these behaviors and begin to exercise regularly," says Dr. Scott Eathorne, medical director for Providence Athletic Medicine in Southfield.
However, statistics show that kids aren't as active as they should be (see box on childhood obesity).
"I think it's safe to say that in this country, in this day and age, kids (engage) in far less spontaneous play," says Eathorne. "Most of our sports are organized. You need to be part of a team or a group. It's not just the old get a bunch of kids together at the ball field and play a pick up game of football or baseball or basketball.
"The sense of neighborhood has changed dramatically. Facilities where kids can gather are not as readily available, and parents, perhaps rightly so, have concerns about their kids' safety. What we see now is a lot of parents who are getting involved with their kids, and it's a great opportunity for them to go out and just play games together, and do things that keep kids moving."
Besides the health benefits, being active helps kids build coordination and other physical skills and also "gives them a sense of confidence and well-being when they learn a new skill, such as throwing or kicking a ball," says Eathorne.
The benefits aren't just for the kids, though. Studies show that adults who exercise with somebody tend to have more success because they're more likely to stick with their program.
Parents, meet your new fitness buddy (or buddies) -- your kids.
"If you have a partner you go running with or if there's someone you meet at the gym, you're much more likely to be successful in the longer term than if you don't because it's too easy to tell yourself that you don't want to get out of bed, or you don't have enough time today to stop at the gym," Eathorne says.
"But if you build it into your family routine, then you kind of support each other. Usually if one person's down, the others will pick them up and say, 'No, no, you promised me we'd go,' and that can be really powerful."
Usually, the more meaningful your motivator is, the more likely you are to stick with your program.
"We always look at what motivator is going to make people successful," Eathorne says. "Some people may not particularly care if they don't have a healthy lifestyle -- but they sure want their kids to be healthy. That's a great motivator."
When Patrice Ross set out to become a runner, she enlisted the help of her 16-year-old son, Raleigh, who runs track. For the last three months, they've been getting up at 5 a.m. to run 2 miles.
"Every morning at 5, he's in my room saying 'Get up, let's get out' -- even in the rain," says Ross, who lives in Detroit. "It's been tough for him because I don't always want to get out of bed."
It seems she couldn't have asked for a better coach.
"At first, he said I could stop four times, then three ..." and so on. As they run, he's constantly giving her feedback about her form, too. "The first couple of days were exciting. By the third day, it was raining. But he told me to get a hat, and we went out running in the rain, and that was the best day."
Perhaps the best part overall is the togetherness.
"We spend more quality time together, and I think we're more open with one another," Ross says. "He's extremely active, and I work long hours. That's our time together."
That's where the perks of family fitness go beyond the physical and confidence elements, experts say.
"There's so much more that can come out of this notion of exercising together," says Eathorne, noting that it helps parents build relationships with their kids and spouses and gives everyone structured time to be together as a family.
And kids are more likely to communicate about other issues if they see that their parents are involved with them and want to do things with them, he says.
"We all have the challenge of busy schedules, but I think all of us try to find time to spend with our kids, and I think (exercising together) is just a different way of doing it, and I think a healthier way of doing it, as opposed to sitting down and watching TV together."
So how can parents help a family used to sitting down and watching TV to get up and at 'em? The key is to make it fun, the experts say -- especially for younger kids.
"It really shouldn't be about, 'Boy, you really need to go out and run, or you need to do some pushups,' " Eathorne says. "That stuff generally isn't fun per se for kids. Kids are all about wanting to play, and the more you can make exercise fun, the more success you have."
This will also help kids grow up with a healthy attitude toward fitness.
"Parents shouldn't say every single time, 'We're exercising because it will be good for you.' They should just be active."
It's important not to focus on weight -- except in severe circumstances, Greene says.
"It would be better to stay positive and focus on the fun you have while exercising and the healthy things it can do for you -- (such as) help you live longer and healthier."
Negative messages ("If you don't exercise, bad things will happen to you") are much less effective than positive messages ("When you exercise, do you see how much better you feel, how much more energy you have?"), Greene says. "It's not about how you look; it's about how healthy you are becoming."
As soon as kids can comprehend the concept of a game, you can start encouraging play and activity, Eathorne says. "You'll see toddlers at the park who will chase a ball and run around with their parents, and that's a good place to start," he says.
The sooner you start moving with your kids, the better.
"It's important to set healthy habits early in life," Greene says. "It's much harder to break some bad habits later in life than to set good healthy habits early on."
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